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BS Behavioral Science Guys on YouTubeChange in Real Time: Reflections on the scripture
Covid-19 tapped our resilience for unexpected change. Sudden change requires a surge of readiness. Responding rather than reacting can temper the negative impact of crisis. Even as anxiety is present, we can flip the switch of our thinking to respond to problems creatively. The two bible study series explores the concepts and ideas of relationship theory through an exploration of biblical illustrations, conversation and online resources. Each session is designed for those new to systems thinking and continuing learners alike. Videos may be watched in any order, or individually.
Family Systems Co-Learner Peer Group Resources (2023-2024 Class)
Session 2: Self Differentiation
Self Differentiation PowerPoint Presentation Self Differentiation ReferencesSession 3: Nuclear Family Emotional System
There are no resources at this time.Session 4: Family Projection Process
Family Projection Process References Family Projection Process PowerPointSession 5: Multigenerational Transmission Process
Multigenerational Transmission Process PowerPointSession 6: Sibling Position
Sibling Position Role Portraits Sibling Position PowerPoint Sibling Position Case Study: Jacob's ChildrenSession 7: Emotional Cutoff
Emotional Cutoff PowerPoint PresentationSession 8: Societal Regression
Session 8 Societal Regression HandoutEnneagram + Anti-Racism + Relationship Systems
Part 1 Resources
Watch Video - Claim Your Enneagram Lane (55:23 minutes) The Enneagram Workshop “What the Enneagram Can Teach Us About the Beloved Community" Family Systems and the Enneagram 51:45 min:Part 2 Resources
Watch Video - 'No matter how long you've been going the wrong way, turn around.' (55:30 minutes) Enneagram: Subtypes of Type 1 - Tom Lahue 43:16 min Instinctual Sub-types EnneaStories – Leanette PokuwaahPart 3 Resources
Watch video - Its so hard to lead when you don't know who you are (59:09 minutes) "The Enneagram Is Not Just For White People”Part 4 Resources
Watch Video - Secrets. shaming. guilt. The trifecta of losing your solid self. (1:00:37 minutes) Poetry Unbound - Ali Cobby EckermannBlog: Shame v. Guilt - January 14, 2013 | 6 min read By Brené Brown
Understanding Organization Design
These four videos will help you understand the fundamentals of organizational and family system design.Countering the COVID-19 Aftershock: Family Systems
Part 1 Resources
Watch the Video - The Triune Brain + Naaman's Wife (48:49 minutes) ‘The Triune Brain’, Therapy in a Nutshell. 7:37 minutes. "3 Brains Systems that Control Your Behavior" Bob Newhart ‘Stop It’, 1st 7 minutes. Top Gun Business Academy, Wayne Berry.Part 2 Resources
Watch Video - Anxiety Binders or Relationship Postures + the 5 daughters (57:48 minutes) "Prepare for the Ultimate Gaslighting" - Julio Vincent Gambuto "10 Covid 19 Emotions You're Not the Only One Having" - Renee FabianPart 3 Resources
Watch Video - False self-solid self + Rizpah (45:28 minutes) "Overcome Anxiety in 7 Minutes" - Mel Schwartz https://www.ted.com/talks "What is Anxiety and the Role of Self Differentiation?" - Murray Bowen | Bowen Center for the Study of the Family
"An Idyllic and Wonderful Relationship" - Murray Bowen | Bowen Center for the Study of the Family
Part 4 Resources
Watch Video - Anxiety + Jochebed (50:27 minutes)Part 5 Resources
Watch Video - Bowen's Idea of Change + 2 mothers-1 child (43:43) 'Three Steps to Differentiating One's Self' - Murray Bowen 4:04 min. Note: context is marriage counseling. Clip from: The Basic Series #4 – ‘Differentiation of Self or the "I" Position.’ Friedman’s Theory of Differentiated Leadership Made Simple. 6:44 min. Source A FAILURE OF NERVE by Edwin Friedman.Last Updated on April 22, 2026